For about the past month, my husband and I have both been debating over something, trying to make a decision….and we haven’t fought over it at all….it’s not like that.  It’s nothing huge either, not a major, life-changing decision.  Just something little that will affect our everyday lives in small ways.  For me, maybe it’s a tad bigger, but not really that much…..

We’ve been debating over moving his computer in from the garage (where he has a little office set up, since he closed his local shop here in the town where we live; he still has his other shop) and putting it in what is now the office/craft room/school room.  The hard part is that it means giving up my schoolroom….and for some, that might be a piece of cake.  But it’s been a tough decision.  I’m not upset over it; I see the need for Dan to bring his computer in.  It would definitely give us so much more working room in the garage, and he’d be in the house, out of the heat, now that summer’s here.  So, it’s time….

It’s time for me to say goodbye to my schoolroom, which on the one hand is kinda sad, but on the other hand, it’s like a new beginning of sorts.  For one thing, we’ll be clearing out all the school clutter, which will be re-organized and sorted onto shelves and cupboards in our dining room.  Everything will have a place, so it doesn’t clutter up our dining room.  The dining room will probably be a much better place for school anyway, as it will be much more interactive for both my boys.  We’ll have so much more room for projects and things.  Plus, our map covers our entire kitchen table underneath a piece of clear vinyl I picked up in the fabric section (I got this idea from another homeschool blogger, but I can’t remember who; I’m so sorry I can’t give due credit).  Not sure where all our posters and things will go, but we’ll figure it out….

I’m actually excited for this new beginning.  It may seem small, yet it’s not for me.  You see, in marriage there are all kinds of sacrifices that have to be made.  There just are; it’s a given, especially if your ultimate goal is to grow old together and still be in love, to honor and cherish the one you vowed to be with for the rest of your life.  I’m excited for Dan to get in out of the heat, and I’m excited to have a newly reorganized school space.  There’s a twinge of sadness at giving up this space, yet there’s so much more happiness at providing a space that Dan truly needs.  In the winter, there was heat in the garage, and it worked out great….but now that summer’s here, it’s just not working, and if I can give to him, then why shouldn’t I?  Please don’t get me wrong here; I’m not trying to toot my own horn AT ALL.  I’m simply trying to make the point that if we, as wives, can give something of value to our husbands, then why shouldn’t we?  What’s stopping us from sacrificing and giving to them, in love?  As wives, we need to provide for their needs, as well, which could include giving up a school room or even something as small as a closet or cupboard.  Hey, and I look at it this way….I’ll get to spend even more time with him because when I’m working on my blog or on MamaBuzz or on school plans or crafting, or whatever….he’ll be right behind me. For Dan and I, we’ve had to really think about it; he didn’t want to infringe upon the schoolroom, and we both weren’t sure if we wanted it in the dining room….but after the last week of just on and off talking it over, it’s time….

Is there something you’re hanging onto….something that could ultimately bless both you and your honey if you were to just let go?

For more Motivate Me Monday, visit Sarah at The Fifth Street Palace.

Ok, so I really debated because I had two things I wanted to put on here this week….one was Airpocalypse, an air band we saw on America’s Got Talent; they are hilariously good for an air band!

Last night, though, my husband and I saw this commercial, and isn’t this the truth?!  Laugh it up!  (I put in their little trailer too, so enjoy both!)

For more Friday Funnies, visit Kim at Homesteader’s Heart.

I love my Kraft Food & Family Magazine! It provides so many great recipes, quick and easy. This healthy dish is a nice soup for a cooler night, maybe a rainy day. You can find Minestrone in Minutes on Kraft!Minestrone in Minutes

1 lb. frozen mixed veggies (broccoli, cauliflower, carrots)
1/2 lb. chicken breasts, chopped
2 cans chicken broth (the original recipe calls for fat-free, reduced-sodium)
2 cans Italian-style diced tomatoes, undrained
1 can cannellini beans, rinsed (I used Great Northern beans)
1 cup rotini pasta, uncooked
1 pkg. shredded mozzarella cheese (I forgot and left this out, but it was still delicious)

Combine all ingredients, except cheese, in saucepan. Bring to boil on high heat, stirring occasionally. Simmer on medium heat 10 minutes or until chicken is done and pasta is tender, stirring occasionally. Serve topped with cheese.

Ok, so I’ve been seeing these posts on some of the blogs that I follow, called Thank You Very Much, and they are hilarious to read!  So, I’ve decided that I could use some free therapy too and couldn’t wait to join in.:)  A shout-out to KMama at The Daily Dribbles for hosting Thank You Very Much.

Here we go:

1) To the person sitting on the sideroad, who just had to wait until I was almost on you, before finally pulling out in front of me, Thank You Very Much!

2) To the person whom I truly love ever so much, who left me without gas, literally on E, for the 2nd or 3rd week in a row (and I was already late), Thank You Very Much.:) (I love you!) 

3) To the grocery store who always seems to be out of whatever is on sale, by the time I get there, Thank You Very Much.

4) To the lovely crow or whatever critter it is that has eaten my lettuce and swiss chard for the 3rd time in a row, not to mention my carrots, onions, and cabbage, (I’m getting tired of replanting here and ready to sit outside with a BB gun; sorry to those who love these critters), Thank You Very Much!

5) To BP for the oil spill, which is devastating our ocean life (and is affecting so many families and will eventually affect all of us, if it hasn’t already); and to those who think we should be drilling oil in the deep, blue, beautiful sea that God created; and to BP for sharing your condolences every morning during the Today Show, Thank You Very Much!

6) And finally, a nice one: To the girls at the pool, who realized we only had 30 minutes to swim when we got there last Friday, and let us in for free, Thank You Very Much!

That’s my Thank you Very Much for this week.  How about you?  Join the vent session at The Daily Dribbles.